Thursday, September 26, 2013

Time for some new adventures.


We got a new car! Yay.  Exciting times. For more than two years now Lar and I have been driving around in a mini van.  A 2003 Mazda MPV, to be more specific.  When Larry decided to take a traveling job about 26 months ago I was going to buy out the Toyota Corolla I had been leasing since the time I had originally moved to Nashville. My amazing, beautiful (insert more positive adjectives) stepmom, Sherry, had past away 6 months prior to making the big bad traveling decision.  The van, which we later named "da beast" was Sherry's car. When we decided on the traveling gig my dear old dad suggested that we take the van for our travels.  A free car that comes equipped with it's own guardian angel... yes please! 



(The beast literally carried our life from home to home.)

It was perfect.  The van fit all of our stuff in it, and got us from point A to point B.  Since the time that my husband, our dog, and I have been traveling with da beast... we have seen so much.  Now, it has not been all good times.  We, of course, get made fun of by most people we encounter, our friends, and our family because we, in fact, drive a mini van.  Random people also ask me all the time if I have kids, after seeing my whip. Nope, just me and my husband and our dog roll around in this bad boy.  I think if you asked Lar or me at any given time we would say we have grown toe LOVE our van! We would obviously like a younger looking car, but it doesn't bother either of us.  I, however, by no means realized that I was actually emotionally attached to da beast. 


(Our final road trip in the beast... back to Nashville.)

When we moved back to Nashville we realized we were going to have to switch the plates over soon which would cost at least $1,500... aka a down payment on a car with less than 200,000 miles.

We have been looking at Jeeps here and there for a while now.  Lar would love to have a Wrangler, but as a practical little wifey wife (scary that I was the practical one) I couldn't justify a Wrangler in my head. Of course, they are cool, but cool alone wouldn't convince me to get rid of our precious Mazda.  I figured whatever car we decided on would be the car we will have when we decide to have a kiddo or four.  I personally do not want to be rolling around in a wrangler with a car seat in the back.  That's just me. 


About 3 weeks ago we took our lovely, little mini van to Carmax to get appraised and they offered us $300. for it. WHAT THE? I almost died. Does this person know about the memories we have had in this thing.  It also has over 200,000 miles on it because it's freakin' awesome. We left Carmax feeling a little sad that we weren't pulling out of there in a BRAND NEW (to us) JEEP! Of course, we saw 800,000 Jeeps on the road that day.

The search continues.

Two days ago I decided to go to a Mazda dealership and see what they could offer us for da beast.  After I received a better offer than STUPIDMAX (carmax)I started to look at the used cars they had on the lot.  I was by myself, and told Stephen, my car salesman, what Lar and I wanted.  I said, I want a white jeep patriot, and he wants a black jeep patriot.  He said, "well... we have a silver 2011 on the lot." :) This was obviously perfect because that just shows how well Lar and I like to meet in the middle! Black+White=Silver... right?

I didn't talk any numbers with Stephen at the time and told him I'd be back with my husband (the muscle of the operation) later that night.  I did some finance research ALL DAY LONG when I got home, which gave me a definite leg up when Lar and I went back to Nelson Mazda.  

When Lar and I arrived at the dealership I walked in as if I owned the place.  To my dismay Stephen wasn't there as he had promised... jerk.  We test drove our future car, and obviously we loved it! We talked details... surprisingly I did most of the talking... because I'm more of a bitch than Lar, obv.  We signed a gajillion papers.

While Lar was getting the insurance taken care of over the phone with progressive (thank you Flo), I went to da beast to change over all of our personal items.  All of a sudden... I became incredibly emotional.  Shocking, I know.  It is crazy, we have been planning to buy a new car for months and the time had come. I had been wanting a jeep SO BADLY! Every time I would see a Jeep, I wanted to become a criminal and hijack it... but I didn't (just to clarify). Now, it was time to say goodbye to the beast and I was literally crying.  I thought of all of the silly and amazing and perfect memories we had in this mini van.  When we drove from PA to OR I remember petting the dashboard (as you would pet a dog) saying, "good job beastie" each day that we would make it a little further across the country.  We were never quite sure if she was going to die out on us, but she never did. (tear)  My love and I had been fortunate enough to travel all across the country and it all of a sudden seemed as if I was signing those memories over to Nelson Mazda.

As I was out there for about 20 minutes the salesman came out to see that I wasn't "being mugged by a homeless person."  I told no, I'm okay... with tears literally streaming down my face. Awkward

                                  
(Saying goodbye to our precious Beastie Boo)


Shortly after I went back into the dealership Larry and I walk outside to leave with our new car.  I hugged the beast, and cried a little more.  Then I took a necklace that I had found in the car belonging to Sherry and hung it in my review mirror of our new car.  Lar and I talked on the way home about all of the memories we have had in da beast, and decided that we will have so many adventures in our new car.  We will think of the jeep as a mini beast.  That's when I came up with the name Wildabeast... or Wil('da beast').  She will be called Wilda... for short. Da Beast had served her purpose, and after a sad goodbye we look
forward to more adventures to come with Wilda!


(Welcome to our family Wildabeast!)



(Time for some NEW ADVENTURES!)








Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Leave Us Alone Day.

So... this past Sunday my husband, Larry, and I decided we would not make ourselves available to phone calls or text messages.  We didn't check our emails, facebooks, or even.. (bom bom bom) our instagrams.  We are obviously not the first two people to ever try this... but I have to say, it was AWESOME. I'm not going to lie.. when Lar went to take a shower, I contemplated taking my phone off of "airplane mode" and checking instagram.  Addicted? I suppose. In the early part of the day I kept hitting the center button of my iphone 4 (I'm a little behind) and nothing would come up.  It was borderline depressing... or maybe I'm being dramatic (but maybe not).  It was just so strange because checking our phones is really second nature.  Sometimes I even do it while Larry is talking and I don't even notice I am doing it... nor am I listening to what he is saying (shhh). But seriously... that is rude. And it is definitely not my intention to be rude.

Anywhooo, Sunday was lovely. We spent lots of quality time with just each other. 



This was on Saturday night after sending my very last text.
(of course I had to document it... and Lar didn't care.)


On Sunday we woke up and went to a coffee shop called
THE FROTHY MONKEY


It is a cute, little, trendy coffee shop that 
is filled with Belmont hipsters. 
We ate lunch and I had the most delicious caramel latte
ever!


The reason I went with the caramel latte (even though I'm a hazelnut girl)is because the frothy monkey offers homemade caramel.  Ironically I saw one of the
baristas pouring ghiradelli caramel into their bottle.
SHENANAGANS! 

I worked on my annotated bibliography
and Lar read a little. We were so trendy for a little while.

On our way home we went grocery shopping... which was 
thoroughly uneventful.  When we got home we were so hungry that I quickly put the groceries away (in my normal obnoxiously anal fashion) and started cooking. 
I asked lar to just put the water in the fridge when I started cooking. Anyone that knows me... knows that I
am a little bit particular (or a lot).  Some would call me OCD.   
When I went into the refrigerator this is what I saw...

Someone was trying to be funny...
but this stresses me out. 


We had the most romantic dinner of all time... drum roll please...


GRILLED CHEESE AND TOMATO SOUP!

Classic.
We both ate two... don't judge.

We watched "The Hunger Games" while enjoying
our oh so romantic dinner. 
After that we hung out on our little porch area.


... and midway through the day we realized we have been married for three months!
We have officially made it longer than Kim Kardashian and 
Chris Humphries. 


Go us... I guess?


Okay.. So back to the phone thing...
I definitely think I will be doing this again.  Maybe once a month.

I first realized that I was enjoying the no phone thing when Lar and I were driving to frothy monkey and an Elton John song came one the radio.  I am a fan of Elton.  I was raised on him. I just busted out into song. Windows down. Belting at the the top of my lungs.  After the song was over I got to thinking... I wonder if I would have even noticed the song was on if I was just a passenger in the car and was on my phone. Honestly.. probably not.  

With the risk of sounding old, I want to say, the whole 'technology thing' has gotten a little out of control.  I look around and see people out to lunch and everyone
at the table is on their phone.  Or when I am walking in school and I try to make eye contact with someone and they look down at their phone to avoid eye contact. Technology is an amazing thing.  When I think about it for too long it is actually beyond my comprehension.  With that being said... I definitely think
technology has it's place. The problem is... our society abuses EVERYTHING that we are given. 

I sincerely wish I lived in a world where people 
would care to talk to the people around them. I wish people
would notice more of the little things in life (myself included).
I can really only change my own habits, but from now on
I really plan on trying to do so. I plan to be more conscious and look at the beauty around me.